Thanks to Laa&Family for posting about this! I'm so happy to hear that FINALLY main stream media is talking about autism acceptance!
Good Morning America aired this story. I love Ari (a proud aspie) & all that he & this advocacy group are promoting.....see the tag on the side of my blog? CELEBRATE NEURODIVERSITY!!! (btw Dianne Sawyer, this isn't a new word ~lol~ but i'm glad that you and others are finally using it!)
As Ari says in this interview, "prejudice causes difficulties" &
i also really liked this article on about.com by Lisa Jo Rudy & wanted to share it...
A diagnosis of autism is not the end of love and hope. But media stories thrive on the most overwhelming and horrifying circumstances. Here are just a few of the myths perpetuated by TV, magazines and movies -- myths that, at least in my opinion, deserve to be blown away!
1. Autistic People Are All Alike
Myth: If I’ve met an autistic person (or seen the movie Rain Man), I have a good idea of what all autistic people are like.
Fact: Autistic people are as different from one another as they could be. The only elements that ALL autistic people seem to have in common are unusual difficulty with social communication.
2. Autistic People Don't Have Feelings
Myth: Autistic people cannot feel or express love or empathy.
Fact: Many -- in fact, most -- autistic people are extremely capable of feeling and expressing love, though sometimes in idiosyncratic ways! What's more, many autistic people are far more empathetic than the average person, though they may express their empathy in unusual ways.
3. Autistic People Don't Build Relationships
Myth: Autistic people cannot build solid relationships with others.
Fact: While it’s unlikely that an autistic child will be a cheerleader, it is very likely that they will have solid relationships with, at the very least, their closest family members. And many autistic people do build strong friendships through shared passionate interests. There are also plenty of autistic people who marry and have satisfying romantic relationships.
4. Autistic People Are a Danger to Society
Myth: Autistic people are dangerous.
Fact: Recent news reports of an individual with Asperger Syndrome committing violent acts have led to fears about violence and autism. While there are many autistic individuals who exhibit violent behaviors, those behaviors are almost always caused by frustration, physical and/or sensory overload, and similar issues. It’s very rare for an autistic person to act violently out of malice.
5. All Autistic People Are Savants
Myth: Autistic people have amazing “savant” abilities, such as extraordinary math skills or musical skills.
Fact: It is true that a relatively few autistic people are “savants.” These individuals have what are called “splinter skills” which relate only to one or two areas of extraordinary ability. By far the majority of autistic people, though, have ordinary or even less-than-ordinary skill sets.
6. Autistic People Have No Language Skills
Myth: Most autistic people are non-verbal or close to non-verbal.
Fact: Individuals with a classic autism diagnosis are sometimes non-verbal or nearly non-verbal. But the autism spectrum also includes extremely verbal individuals with very high reading skills. Diagnoses at the higher end of the spectrum are increasing much faster than diagnoses at the lower end of the spectrum.
7. Autistic People Can't Do Much of Anything
Myth: I shouldn’t expect much of an autistic person.
Fact: This is one myth that, in my opinion, truly injures our children. Autistic individuals can achieve great things -- but only if they're supported by people who believe in their potential. Autistic people are often the creative innovators in our midst. They see the world through a different lens -- and when their perspective is respected, they can change the world.
4 comments:
This was really interesting. Thanks for sharing. I truly love the way you embrace Jaden's Autism!
Gosh there's so much my heart wants to express...I have no doubt I'll re-read my comment & wish to edit it! :o)
First of all, you are such an amazing mom! I have learned so much from your love & optimism! Thank you! Thank you for being who you are...and inspiring other mommies out there like me!
Our neuro has *warned* us that Trev is at risk to fall somewhere on the spectrum. At first I was scared. Of course...there were a lot of things that overwhelmed me in the beginning of Trevy's journey! lol But God has crossed my path with women like you (and Shanna...and others) who have been such a huge blessing! Who show me courage. And transparency!
I just adore you! In fact, if you were here right now I'd squeeze you til' your head popped off! :O)
(((hugs)))
...danielle
Autism and I have a love/hate relationship, but I do like to celebrate their neurodiversity. Can't help but hate it when Javi is in so much intestinal pain. He definitely has the "autistic bowels". I think we'll have to go back to Miralax :(
thx ladies!
danielle - u had me teary-eyed reading ur comment....thx lady! i hear what u're saying about trevor's possible diagnosis....when the word autism was brought up when jaden was about 3, i got VERY scrared/defensive/emotional/angry/etc/etc....i've had 5 years to grieve/accept/understand jaden's autism & i admit, sometimes it really pisses me off that jaden has to try so much harder than others....so it definitely wasn't an overnight acceptance....it took encouragement from others to help me see that it was by no means, the end of our hopes & dreams for jaden....it's just an alternate path ;0)
shanna - girl, i hear ya! jaden has/had the autistic bowels....we had to give him enemas on a regular basis as a baby & he was on miralax for about 4 years....have u ever taken javi to a chiropractor? i swear that's what 'cured' jaden's bowel issues....he's been fine/regular & off the miralax for the last 2+ years! :0)
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