at least that's what jaden says....

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i mentioned before, jaden is really starting to express his emotions more these days, and it's sometimes difficult for him to do that appropriately....because i recognize that, i cut the boy some slack, and just try to explain to him what is & isn't appropriate/respectful/nice
last evening at the girls' dance classes, jaden was bored & wanted to go upstairs and get one of the big exercise balls that he knows are up there....i wouldn't let him, explaining that there's not enough room in the lobby to play with it & that they aren't toys - they're meant for the classes....i suggested he draw, or we could go outside & play in the grass....he was not happy with that answer and replied
"fine! i'm not your son any more!" ~lol~....i told him i was sorry to hear that, and left it alone....he kept on his sour face and pouted for a while
then when he needed to ask me something, he said
"sharon?"i laughed,
"sharon? my name's not sharon.""yes it is." he said
"okay, u're right - my name is sharon...but you're to call me ma."he said,
"but i'm not ur son any more."i said,
"well, i understand u're upset with my decision, and you can be angry about it...but u cannot call me sharon. that's disrespectful & i expect u to call me ma."he didn't say anything else & i left it alone as well
he lucked out later & gabby's dance instructor invited us all up to check out the girls in their recital costumes....jaden was able to sit on/roll around with the exercise ball momentarily while all the other parents & i oooh'd & aaaah'd over the girls....then i told him it was time to go back downstairs and he was fine with that....all the 'i'm not ur son' stuff was forgotten
well then this morning, jaden was in his room getting ready for school.....i walked in to check on his progress & he was half dressed, playing with his
k'nex.....i told him that he needed to put those away until he was finished getting ready, & then he could get them back out
he started packing them back into their case & simply said,
"u're ruining my life."not in an angry tone or with any real emotion....just matter of factly, without even looking up at me
i chuckled quietly to myself & left his room....but before we walked out of the house to leave, he put his arms around my waist & said,
"ma, i'm sorry i said u're ruining my life."i replied,
"it's okay bub, i'm sure it won't be the last time!" ~lol~